Alternative to OkCupid
Values matter. So does meeting.
OkCupid puts questions and preferences into dating discovery. Known approaches understanding through conversation, then helps turn an introduction into a plan. If you want less time assessing profiles and more opportunity to find out how you feel in person, start there.
“I was so surprised by how much we had in common and it was truly one of the best first dates ive ever been on.”
“The AI matching was actually way better than I expected, and my first match turned into a really fun date with someone I genuinely clicked with.”
“I've been on some great dates so far with genuine people who were clearly there for the same reason I was.”
How is Known different?
More than a questionnaire?
Meet someone chosen for you
There’s a lot about you that could never fit into a dating profile. At Known, we get to know all the little things that make you, you - your quirks, values, aspirations, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. We do the same with your potential matches, so we can introduce you to someone we believe you’ll have real compatibility with.
Do you want to browse, or be introduced?
Dating that cares about your time
Known is searching for your match every day, so you don’t have to spend hours swiping or checking for someone new. When we find someone you want to meet, we plan the date and send you the details. You just have to show up.
Ready for something beyond an inbox?
Meet people looking for what you are
Known is a community of intentional daters who are ready for a real relationship. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, have been dating for a while, or simply ready to find your person - our matchmaker gets to know you and what you’re looking for so we can find the same in the people we introduce you to.
Can someone else handle the planning?
We make the date happen
When you and your match are ready to meet, Known finds a time that works for both of you, picks a spot nearby, books the reservation, and sends you the details. We take care of everything so you don’t have to.
What will it feel like in person?
Skip the pen-pal phase
We believe chemistry is best discovered in person, not over a screen. Known skips the endless small talk and conversations that go nowhere, so you can see if there’s a spark in person. Once you both say yes to an introduction, Known finds a time that works and plans the date. Save the real getting-to-know-you part for when you meet.
Want a date that fits your life?
Your preferences matter.
Your match, preferences, and availability help shape the date. Known looks for a place that fits, not just somewhere to meet.
Known vs OkCupid
The starting point
OkCupid uses matching questions to help connect people around what matters to them.
Known starts with a conversation about you, then makes a considered introduction.
The next step
Its profiles support a range of identities and relationship preferences.
When interest is mutual, Known helps plan a date so you can meet in person.
“Went on a really fun first date with a girl, genuine connection that didn't feel superficial at all so if that's what you're looking for this app is the place! Definitely recommending it to the boys 10/10”
“I was actually surprised at the AI aspect for matching, because my first date from Known could not have been more fun!!”
“I went on a great date, it was nice the whole experience was sort of all taken care of for me.. restaurant was nice and I’d try it again”
How Known Works
A little more personal.
Swipeless dating.
You don't browse people. You're introduced to them.
Known starts by getting to know you. Not just your profile, but how you think, what you value, and who you're drawn to.
From there, we introduce you to one person at a time. Someone chosen with intention. Someone worth meeting.
No endless options. No small talk.
If there's mutual interest, we set the date. Time, place, everything handled. All you have to do is show up.
It gets better over time.
After each date, Known learns. What felt right. What didn't. What surprised you.
So every introduction becomes more accurate. More natural. More you.
Less searching. More knowing.
Some of our favorite places
Where Known dates take place
Hayes Valley / San Francisco
a Mano
a Mano makes a pasta date straightforward: start with rosemary focaccia or saffron arancini, then order two different bowls for the middle of the table. The current menu ranges from a simple tomato bucatini to rigatoni with braised pork shoulder.
Go on a date here with Known
Russian Hill / San Francisco
Cafe Réveille
The Polk Street Réveille gives a coffee date room to turn into brunch. The corner space has high ceilings, indoor tables, heated outdoor seating and a parklet, with an all-day menu if either of you arrives hungry.
Go on a date here with Known
Fort Mason / San Francisco
The Interval at Long Now
The Interval provides its own conversation starters: towering bookshelves, a drawing robot and exhibits about thinking on a very long timescale. The Fort Mason space is both a café and cocktail bar, so it works whether your date calls for coffee or something stronger.
Go on a date here with KnownA few possibilities from our venue library. Your date’s location depends on your match, preferences, and availability.
Your pocket matchmaker
Less searching.
More knowing.
A conversation. An introduction. A date worth getting ready for.
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