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Alternative to OkCupid

Values matter. So does meeting.

You can learn a lot from someone's answers. You can learn something else entirely when they make you laugh across a table. Curious about an alternative to OkCupid? Known gets to know you through conversation, makes a personal introduction, and helps plan the date when you're both interested. Leave a few questions for when you meet.

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4.7App Store monthly average
A couple kissing beneath string lights
I've been on some great dates so far with genuine people who were clearly there for the same reason I was.
w_sfApp Store review
This is such a cool app I love that it is curated and personalized. I genuinely feel in good hands
GigiialcApp Store review
Very impressive. I have to admit, it felt like a was in an episode of “black mirror” but I appreciate the thoroughness of the AI and the whole experience. Well done!
Asa RittermannApp Store review
Being able to share my experiences with an ai bot was one of a kind, recommending to all my friends. This is real dating.
tylerdezyApp Store review
I went on a great date, it was nice the whole experience was sort of all taken care of for me.. restaurant was nice and I’d try it again
Jon.poker345App Store review
It felt like a really natural way to talk about myself and what I’m looking for. Like I was talking to a friend. Super easy, cool approach to approach online dating. I’m excited
ChloeCW123App Store review

How Known works

A little more personal.

Swipeless dating.

You don't browse people. You're introduced to them.

Known starts by getting to know you. Not just your profile, but how you think, what you value, and who you're drawn to.

From there, we introduce you to one person at a time. Someone chosen with intention. Someone worth meeting.

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No endless options. No small talk.

If there's mutual interest, we set the date. Time, place, everything handled. All you have to do is show up.

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It gets better over time.

After each date, Known learns. What felt right. What didn't. What surprised you.

So every introduction becomes more accurate. More natural. More you.

Less searching. More knowing.

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How is Known different?

What will it feel like in person?

Skip the pen-pal phase

We believe chemistry is best discovered in person, not over a screen. Known skips the endless small talk and conversations that go nowhere, so you can see if there’s a spark in person. Once you both say yes to an introduction, Known finds a time that works and plans the date. Save the real getting-to-know-you part for when you meet.

Can someone else handle the planning?

We make the date happen

When you and your match are ready to meet, Known finds a time that works for both of you, picks a spot nearby, books the reservation, and sends you the details. We take care of everything so you don’t have to.

Want a date that fits your life?

Your preferences matter.

Your match, preferences, and availability help shape the date. Known looks for a place that fits, not just somewhere to meet.

Ready for something beyond an inbox?

Meet people looking for what you are

Known is a community of intentional daters who are ready for a real relationship. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, have been dating for a while, or simply ready to find your person - our matchmaker gets to know you and what you’re looking for so we can find the same in the people we introduce you to.

Do you want to browse, or be introduced?

Dating that cares about your time

Known is searching for your match every day, so you don’t have to spend hours swiping or checking for someone new. When we find someone you want to meet, we plan the date and send you the details. You just have to show up.

More than a questionnaire?

Meet someone chosen for you

There’s a lot about you that could never fit into a dating profile. At Known, we get to know all the little things that make you, you - your quirks, values, aspirations, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. We do the same with your potential matches, so we can introduce you to someone we believe you’ll have real compatibility with.

Known vs OkCupid

The detailsOkCupid
Getting to know you
A conversation about your values, preferences and relationship goals, then a personal introduction.
Answer Match Questions about what matters to you.
Compatibility
We explain why we think you could be a match, then help plan the date.
A match percentage lets you compare answers with someone.
Manual swiping
None. We find your match; you decide whether to meet.
Compare profiles and answers to Match Questions.
Book the date
We choose a time and place and handle the reservation.
Date booking isn’t advertised.
Cost
Free matchmaking and date booking. Food and drinks are separate.
Free accounts; paid extras.
No subscription
No subscription. No monthly dating bill.
Optional Basic, Premium and other plans.
Love this! I was on the waitlist for a while and started to lose hope but I just got my first match and he’s really cute! Fingers crossed!
NorthBay21App Store review
So glad this app exists, I’m already being matched with such perfect dates, I’m so excited
hihihihihi12345..App Store review
Known is like a better hinge, it’s a great matchmaking service/dating app.
guitardogstacosninersApp Store review
Love the app- especially the intro. What an awesome idea- I can’t wait for this to go global! 🤩
Teeps73App Store review
Night and day compared to other dating apps. Excited to see what comes of this in my life!
FrankS8360App Store review
Got to know me better than I know myself and actually got me dates with interesting people. 10/10 recommend
lwc2120App Store review
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Some of our favorite places

Where Known dates take place

Photo of Cafe Réveille

Bay Area

Cafe Réveille

Cafe Réveille is a great spot for a quick breakfast, with sidewalk tables under the trees and an all-white interior with a laidback mood. Indoor seating and heated outdoor seating are both available, and the all-day menu covers salads, sandwiches and specialty coffee.

Go on a date here with Known
Photo of ABV

Bay Area

ABV

ABV is a lively neighborhood cocktail bar in San Francisco's Mission District that strikes a nice balance for a first date. There's enough energy to keep things fun without the noise getting in the way of conversation, and the spacious layout means you won't feel crowded.

Go on a date here with Known

A few possibilities from our venue library. Your date’s location depends on your match, preferences, and availability.

A little more to know

Good questions.

Do I get to talk to my date before meeting them?
Yes, you can chat with your date at 7 AM on the morning of your reservation. Just enough time to work out any last minute details. Plenty of time to break the ice, without overthinking it.
How do I delete my account?
Sorry to see you go. If you'd like to withdraw your application to Known you can do so by deleting your account in settings. All data will be deleted within 30 days of the request, abiding by data compliance. We recommend pausing your account, because if you withdraw, you will re-enter the waitlist upon returning.
Does Known plan the first date?
Yes! Once you confirm your match and your schedules align, we select a venue based on both of your locations and make the reservation. All you have to do is show up and be yourself.
Why has my application not been approved yet?
Great question. If you are interested in applying for Known you must first complete your application. Applications are reviewed periodically by our team and the decision timeline can range anywhere from a couple days to several weeks. Application completion does not guarantee admittance to Known and memberships can be revoked.
How long does it take to chat with the matchmaker?
A typical conversation takes around 15 minutes, but take your time. You can always pause and come back to it whenever you're ready. We suggest finding a quiet place with good internet for the best experience.
Why do I need a friend to vouch for me?
Vouching helps us review your application with a more honest lens, which often strengthens your profile. The more we know about you, the better your Introductions.

Your pocket matchmaker

Less searching.
More knowing.

A conversation. An introduction. A date worth getting ready for.

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