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The Best Bars for a First Date in Chicago

Ten Chicago bars for a first date, from candlelit cocktail salons to a jazz club and a book bar built for conversation.

A drink gives a first date a simple starting point: find a seat, choose something to sip, and see where the conversation goes. These ten Chicago bars range from dim, quiet rooms to spots with live music or a view, so you can pick the setting that suits your evening.

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The Violet Hour

Rows of candlelit white tables beside a deep blue booth in a dim bar.
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Meet over cocktails in one of The Violet Hour's three candlelit salons in Wicker Park. A single discreet entrance, marked by an ever-changing mural outside, leads to the salons and a long marble bar.

The seasonal cocktail list comes from a bar program that has won a James Beard Award. Hours are daily from 5pm to 1am, with reservations through the website.

Cindy's Rooftop

A glass-roofed dining room with striped banquettes, wooden tables and hanging globe lights.
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Talk over drinks with Millennium Park and Lake Michigan in view at Cindy's Rooftop. The bar and restaurant occupies the 13th floor of the Chicago Athletic Association hotel, with a glass atrium and a terrace open year-round.

Reservations are encouraged and open 14 days ahead, though walk-ins are welcome for a same-day plan. Hours are 11am to 11pm Monday through Thursday, with later closing times on weekends.

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Green Mill

A saxophonist in a gray jacket and patterned tie smiling beside a microphone on a stage.
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Give a first date a live-jazz soundtrack at Green Mill, a historic club with music every night. Evening sets run, for example, from 8pm to midnight.

The late Friday and Saturday sets, from 1am to closing, carry a $5 cover.

Arbella

A long bar with leather booths along a brick wall, hanging lamps and a mural with bottles on shelves.
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Explore the world-travel drinks menu together at Arbella in River North. Its map-style format gives you something to discuss as you choose. Pick your strength: every drink is labeled somewhere between light and boozy.

Three old fashioneds stand out: Manila with ube whiskey, Havana with aged rum, and Goa Coast with spiced turmeric syrup. Share crab rangoons or potato croquettes alongside your drinks, and book online if you want to plan ahead.

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Little Bad Wolf

Hands around several cocktails on a dark wooden table, one with a rosemary sprig and one topped with foam.
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Take a seat at the bar or on the lively patio at Little Bad Wolf in Andersonville, where a long craft beer, cocktail, and wine list gives you plenty to choose from.

Try the standout Wolf Burger with mac and cheese, or choose bao buns from the menu. Reservations are not accepted, so expect a wait when it is busy.

Forbidden Root

A hand holding a glass of hazy beer in front of a tiered bar with shelves of bottles and taps.
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Meet for beer at Forbidden Root, an American brewpub in a remodeled old West Town theater with steampunk light fixtures.

A hidden TV comes out only for Chicago playoff games, keeping the focus on drinks and company the rest of the year.

Kibbitznest

A bar with high wooden stools and shelves of bottles under a ceiling of beams and ductwork in a brick room.
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Start a conversation over books and drinks at Kibbitznest, a Lincoln Park book bar open since 2016. There is deliberately no wifi, encouraging people to talk.

Couples often share cheese boards and cocktails; food is limited to cheese plates and snacks such as chips and salsa. Tuesday is trivia night, and the bar is closed Mondays.

Empty Bottle

A long dark bar room with a wood floor, brick walls and a bar along the left.
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Catch a live band together at Empty Bottle in Ukrainian Village, where all shows are for guests 21 and over. Most Mondays feature free performances by local and touring acts, an easy option if you both love live music.

Kumiko

A smiling woman behind a wooden bar in front of a lattice-backed shelf of spirits and glasses.
Photo courtesy of Kumiko

Meet for a drink or dinner in Kumiko's moody bar setting in the West Loop. The Japanese dining bar also has a whisky bar and cafe on site.

Hours are Wednesday through Sunday from 5pm to midnight, with last call at 11:30pm. Book using the website's Reserve link.

Scofflaw

A marble table with a row of cocktails in front of a lit fireplace and a mint-green wall.
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Settle into Scofflaw's dim, quiet drawing-room atmosphere in Logan Square, complete with a fireplace. Gin cocktails are the focus, with cookies served after midnight.

A marble bar and shabby-chic details add to the setting, while reasonably priced drinks keep the evening within a modest budget.

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