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Alternative to Coffee Meets Bagel

A little less searching.

Coffee, bagels, someone you'd like to see again. We can get behind that. If you're looking beyond Coffee Meets Bagel, try Known's personal introductions. We get to know you through a conversation and help plan a date when you both say yes. Your job is to show up as yourself and see how it feels.

A couple kissing beneath string lights
Amazing!! Was super user friendly and took minimal time to set up. Great idea and executed really well!!
tademadeApp Store review
Update: I went on my first date and honestly really enjoyed it. We’re going on a second date this weekend.
Roeroeroeyourboat4App Store review
Great app for authentic dating and very refreshing concept behind the app.
sam736528App Store review
It felt like a really natural way to talk about myself and what I’m looking for. Like I was talking to a friend. Super easy, cool approach to approach online dating. I’m excited
ChloeCW123App Store review
So glad this app exists, I’m already being matched with such perfect dates, I’m so excited
hihihihihi12345..App Store review
Genuinely the best dating app I’ve ever used. Very good personalization.
Henryyy1969App Store review

How Known works

A little more personal.

Swipeless dating.

You don't browse people. You're introduced to them.

Known starts by getting to know you. Not just your profile, but how you think, what you value, and who you're drawn to.

From there, we introduce you to one person at a time. Someone chosen with intention. Someone worth meeting.

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No endless options. No small talk.

If there's mutual interest, we set the date. Time, place, everything handled. All you have to do is show up.

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It gets better over time.

After each date, Known learns. What felt right. What didn't. What surprised you.

So every introduction becomes more accurate. More natural. More you.

Less searching. More knowing.

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How is Known different?

Who is making the actual plan?

We make the date happen

When you and your match are ready to meet, Known finds a time that works for both of you, picks a spot nearby, books the reservation, and sends you the details. We take care of everything so you don’t have to.

Still wondering where it’s going?

Meet people looking for what you are

Known is a community of intentional daters who are ready for a real relationship. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, have been dating for a while, or simply ready to find your person - our matchmaker gets to know you and what you’re looking for so we can find the same in the people we introduce you to.

Want a date that fits your life?

Your preferences matter.

Your match, preferences, and availability help shape the date. Known looks for a place that fits, not just somewhere to meet.

Ready to get off the screen?

Skip the pen-pal phase

We believe chemistry is best discovered in person, not over a screen. Known skips the endless small talk and conversations that go nowhere, so you can see if there’s a spark in person. Once you both say yes to an introduction, Known finds a time that works and plans the date. Save the real getting-to-know-you part for when you meet.

Too many profiles, not enough possibility?

Dating that cares about your time

Known is searching for your match every day, so you don’t have to spend hours swiping or checking for someone new. When we find someone you want to meet, we plan the date and send you the details. You just have to show up.

More than a good first photo?

Meet someone chosen for you

There’s a lot about you that could never fit into a dating profile. At Known, we get to know all the little things that make you, you - your quirks, values, aspirations, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. We do the same with your potential matches, so we can introduce you to someone we believe you’ll have real compatibility with.

Known vs Coffee Meets Bagel

The detailsCoffee Meets Bagel
Showing interest
Get a personal introduction after a conversation about you.
On CMB Worldwide, like a specific photo or prompt and optionally add a message.
How you connect
A personal introduction, followed by date planning when you both say yes.
Mutual likes create a match and open a conversation.
Manual swiping
None. We find your match; you decide whether to meet.
Like a profile photo or prompt.
Book the date
We choose a time and place and handle the reservation.
Date booking isn’t advertised.
Cost
Free matchmaking and date booking. Food and drinks are separate.
Free features with paid extras.
No subscription
No subscription. No monthly dating bill.
Optional Premium subscription.
Super easy and fun to use. Great way to meet people and different than other dating apps :)
madisondoanutApp Store review
I was actually surprised at the AI aspect for matching, because my first date from Known could not have been more fun!!
Looking for love :)App Store review
This is such a great app. I love how you are able to find someone for me so easily and effectively! It was effortless and helped me find someone I adore! Best app!
JAKEt007_App Store review
Night and day compared to other dating apps. Excited to see what comes of this in my life!
FrankS8360App Store review
Actually shocked at how well things are going so far! Really happy with who I’m meeting
JabskdjfbwjApp Store review
i thought this ai thing wouldnt work (i hate customer service calls w ai) but this one wasn’t bad.. better than creating another profile
catalina_reApp Store review
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Some of our favorite places

Where Known dates take place

A grilled pork chop topped with a warm tomato and olive relish, with green beans and a drizzle of sauce on a white plate.

Berkeley

Via del Corso

Via del Corso is an Italian trattoria in North Berkeley, a good pick when you want dinner to feel like a small occasion. Pasta leads the menu in a snug dining room, from a gnocchi alla norma to ravioli filled with beef.

Go on a date here with Known
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Bay Area

Iki Omakase

Iki Omakase is a Japanese restaurant in Palo Alto, built around an eight-seat omakase sushi counter. The room is quiet and minimalist, and the restaurant is a good pick for a special occasion.

Go on a date here with Known

A few possibilities from our venue library. Your date’s location depends on your match, preferences, and availability.

A little more to know

Good questions.

How do I delete my account?
Sorry to see you go. If you'd like to withdraw your application to Known you can do so by deleting your account in settings. All data will be deleted within 30 days of the request, abiding by data compliance. We recommend pausing your account, because if you withdraw, you will re-enter the waitlist upon returning.
How long does it take to chat with the matchmaker?
A typical conversation takes around 15 minutes, but take your time. You can always pause and come back to it whenever you're ready. We suggest finding a quiet place with good internet for the best experience.
Do I get to talk to my date before meeting them?
Yes, you can chat with your date at 7 AM on the morning of your reservation. Just enough time to work out any last minute details. Plenty of time to break the ice, without overthinking it.
Where is Known available?
Known is live in the Bay Area and San Diego, with plans to expand worldwide soon. If you’re outside the US, join the worldwide waitlist to be notified when we launch in your city.
Why do I need a friend to vouch for me?
Vouching helps us review your application with a more honest lens, which often strengthens your profile. The more we know about you, the better your Introductions.
Why has my application not been approved yet?
Great question. If you are interested in applying for Known you must first complete your application. Applications are reviewed periodically by our team and the decision timeline can range anywhere from a couple days to several weeks. Application completion does not guarantee admittance to Known and memberships can be revoked.

Your pocket matchmaker

Less searching.
More knowing.

A conversation. An introduction. A date worth getting ready for.

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Known arranging a date, shown on an iPhone