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Alternative to Tinder

Less swiping. More possibility.

Ready to give your thumb the night off? Try Known. We start with a conversation about you, then introduce you to one person at a time. If you're both interested, we help plan the date. Whether you're taking a break from Tinder or just curious, there's something nice about having an actual evening to look forward to.

A couple kissing beneath string lights
Seriously this is the only app that doesn’t waste your time. Been on 2 dates so far and I just deleted hinge bc it doesn’t feel worth it anymore. Ty Known🩷
Gurlygirlgirl7App Store review
Wow even from the first interaction it is clear how intentional this is
Dom AlexisApp Store review
This is genuinely one of a kind. Went on a great date through the platform and enjoyed the entire experience
catlemon99App Store review
I wasn’t expecting this to work but I got a date after three weeks on the waitlist and honestly it was the best date I’ve had in a while.
SFGuy101App Store review
I was so surprised by how much we had in common and it was truly one of the best first dates ive ever been on.
tscmkdoApp Store review
Amazing!! Was super user friendly and took minimal time to set up. Great idea and executed really well!!
tademadeApp Store review

How Known works

A little more personal.

Swipeless dating.

You don't browse people. You're introduced to them.

Known starts by getting to know you. Not just your profile, but how you think, what you value, and who you're drawn to.

From there, we introduce you to one person at a time. Someone chosen with intention. Someone worth meeting.

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No endless options. No small talk.

If there's mutual interest, we set the date. Time, place, everything handled. All you have to do is show up.

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It gets better over time.

After each date, Known learns. What felt right. What didn't. What surprised you.

So every introduction becomes more accurate. More natural. More you.

Less searching. More knowing.

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How is Known different?

Want a date that fits your life?

Your preferences matter.

Your match, preferences, and availability help shape the date. Known looks for a place that fits, not just somewhere to meet.

More than a good first photo?

Meet someone chosen for you

There’s a lot about you that could never fit into a dating profile. At Known, we get to know all the little things that make you, you - your quirks, values, aspirations, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. We do the same with your potential matches, so we can introduce you to someone we believe you’ll have real compatibility with.

Who is making the actual plan?

We make the date happen

When you and your match are ready to meet, Known finds a time that works for both of you, picks a spot nearby, books the reservation, and sends you the details. We take care of everything so you don’t have to.

Ready to get off the screen?

Skip the pen-pal phase

We believe chemistry is best discovered in person, not over a screen. Known skips the endless small talk and conversations that go nowhere, so you can see if there’s a spark in person. Once you both say yes to an introduction, Known finds a time that works and plans the date. Save the real getting-to-know-you part for when you meet.

Still wondering where it’s going?

Meet people looking for what you are

Known is a community of intentional daters who are ready for a real relationship. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, have been dating for a while, or simply ready to find your person - our matchmaker gets to know you and what you’re looking for so we can find the same in the people we introduce you to.

Too many profiles, not enough possibility?

Dating that cares about your time

Known is searching for your match every day, so you don’t have to spend hours swiping or checking for someone new. When we find someone you want to meet, we plan the date and send you the details. You just have to show up.

Known vs Tinder

The detailsTinder
Matching
A conversation about your values, preferences and relationship goals, then a personal introduction.
Swipe right to like a profile; mutual likes create a match.
How you connect
A personal introduction, followed by date planning when you both say yes.
Matched people can chat; Platinum also offers messages before matching.
Manual swiping
None. We find your match; you decide whether to meet.
Yes. Swipe right or left on profiles.
Book the date
We choose a time and place and handle the reservation.
Date booking isn’t advertised.
Cost
Free matchmaking and date booking. Food and drinks are separate.
Free core features; paid upgrades.
No subscription
No subscription. No monthly dating bill.
Optional Plus, Gold and Platinum plans.
So glad I signed up! Known is not yet in my city but I am excited for when it comes! I’ve heard amazing things and can’t wait to see for myself why Known is amazing!
A_R4321App Store review
Loveee the look, offloaded Hinge and Tinder, excited for this!
Cereal d8rApp Store review
Actually shocked at how well things are going so far! Really happy with who I’m meeting
JabskdjfbwjApp Store review
I went on a great date, it was nice the whole experience was sort of all taken care of for me.. restaurant was nice and I’d try it again
Jon.poker345App Store review
I’ve always been against dating apps but this is my favorite one, I 100% recommend
cody bellingerApp Store review
Best dating app I’ve seen. Very excited to use it. Also-didn’t know my phone could vibrate like that, that onboarding video was AWESOME. 10/10
Positive Girl 222App Store review
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Some of our favorite places

Where Known dates take place

Aerial view of the Winchester Mystery House mansion with its red tile roofs and surrounding trees

San Jose

Winchester Mystery House

Explore the Winchester Mystery House together, a 160-room mansion in west San Jose known for doors that open onto walls and stairways that lead to the ceiling. The 65-minute Mansion Tour takes you through 110 rooms, and your ticket also includes access to the gardens.

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A covered patio with wooden tables and chairs, orange pendant lamps and screens of plants.

Berkeley

Gather

Local, organic farm-to-table cooking fills the menu at Gather, a downtown spot near campus. Settle into the warm indoor room or take a table on the heated, covered patio.

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Photo of High Treason

Bay Area

High Treason

High Treason is a laid-back wine bar on Clement Street in San Francisco's Inner Richmond, where vinyl records and a great wine selection set the mood for a first date. Grab a glass, enjoy the music and get to know each other in a relaxed neighborhood setting.

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A few possibilities from our venue library. Your date’s location depends on your match, preferences, and availability.

A little more to know

Good questions.

How long does it take to chat with the matchmaker?
A typical conversation takes around 15 minutes, but take your time. You can always pause and come back to it whenever you're ready. We suggest finding a quiet place with good internet for the best experience.
How do I delete my account?
Sorry to see you go. If you'd like to withdraw your application to Known you can do so by deleting your account in settings. All data will be deleted within 30 days of the request, abiding by data compliance. We recommend pausing your account, because if you withdraw, you will re-enter the waitlist upon returning.
Does Known plan the first date?
Yes! Once you confirm your match and your schedules align, we select a venue based on both of your locations and make the reservation. All you have to do is show up and be yourself.
Why do I need a friend to vouch for me?
Vouching helps us review your application with a more honest lens, which often strengthens your profile. The more we know about you, the better your Introductions.
Why has my application not been approved yet?
Great question. If you are interested in applying for Known you must first complete your application. Applications are reviewed periodically by our team and the decision timeline can range anywhere from a couple days to several weeks. Application completion does not guarantee admittance to Known and memberships can be revoked.
Is Known available on Android?
Yes, in the US. Download it for Android, or use known.com/join and we will send you to the right place for your phone. Outside the US, join the global waitlist.

Your pocket matchmaker

Less searching.
More knowing.

A conversation. An introduction. A date worth getting ready for.

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Known arranging a date, shown on an iPhone