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Alternative to Iris

There is more to a spark.

Attraction gets your attention. A good conversation makes you stay. If Iris has you curious about another way to meet, try Known. Tell us about yourself, what you care about and who you're hoping to find. We'll make an introduction and help plan a date when you're both interested. You get to find out about the spark in person.

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4.7App Store monthly average
A couple kissing beneath string lights
Seriously this is the only app that doesn’t waste your time. Been on 2 dates so far and I just deleted hinge bc it doesn’t feel worth it anymore. Ty Known🩷
Gurlygirlgirl7App Store review
Really cool idea and app, hopefully it will change the dating game
LizzzzaaaaazzzzzamApp Store review
It felt like a really natural way to talk about myself and what I’m looking for. Like I was talking to a friend. Super easy, cool approach to approach online dating. I’m excited
ChloeCW123App Store review
This is genuinely one of a kind. Went on a great date through the platform and enjoyed the entire experience
catlemon99App Store review
Genuinely the best dating app I’ve ever used. Very good personalization.
Henryyy1969App Store review
Beautiful UI, such a clean user experience with great haptic feedback that makes the app come alive. Definitely recommending to friends in search of a dating app!
Ellie StrandeApp Store review

How Known works

A little more personal.

Swipeless dating.

You don't browse people. You're introduced to them.

Known starts by getting to know you. Not just your profile, but how you think, what you value, and who you're drawn to.

From there, we introduce you to one person at a time. Someone chosen with intention. Someone worth meeting.

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No endless options. No small talk.

If there's mutual interest, we set the date. Time, place, everything handled. All you have to do is show up.

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It gets better over time.

After each date, Known learns. What felt right. What didn't. What surprised you.

So every introduction becomes more accurate. More natural. More you.

Less searching. More knowing.

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How is Known different?

What happens after the recommendation?

Dating that cares about your time

Known is searching for your match every day, so you don’t have to spend hours swiping or checking for someone new. When we find someone you want to meet, we plan the date and send you the details. You just have to show up.

Does the conversation feel like you?

Meet someone chosen for you

There’s a lot about you that could never fit into a dating profile. At Known, we get to know all the little things that make you, you - your quirks, values, aspirations, and what you’re looking for in a relationship. We do the same with your potential matches, so we can introduce you to someone we believe you’ll have real compatibility with.

Want a date that fits your life?

Your preferences matter.

Your match, preferences, and availability help shape the date. Known looks for a place that fits, not just somewhere to meet.

Is there a clear next step?

Meet people looking for what you are

Known is a community of intentional daters who are ready for a real relationship. Whether you’re newly single, divorced, have been dating for a while, or simply ready to find your person - our matchmaker gets to know you and what you’re looking for so we can find the same in the people we introduce you to.

Who turns the introduction into a date?

We make the date happen

When you and your match are ready to meet, Known finds a time that works for both of you, picks a spot nearby, books the reservation, and sends you the details. We take care of everything so you don’t have to.

Is the goal still human connection?

Skip the pen-pal phase

We believe chemistry is best discovered in person, not over a screen. Known skips the endless small talk and conversations that go nowhere, so you can see if there’s a spark in person. Once you both say yes to an introduction, Known finds a time that works and plans the date. Save the real getting-to-know-you part for when you meet.

Known vs Iris

The detailsIris
Getting to know you
A conversation about your values, preferences and relationship goals, then a personal introduction.
Rate faces to teach its AI who you find attractive.
Matching
Introductions consider your values, preferences and relationship goals.
Recommendations emphasize mutual visual attraction.
Manual swiping
None. We find your match; you decide whether to meet.
Rate faces to train recommendations.
Book the date
We choose a time and place and handle the reservation.
Date booking isn’t advertised.
Cost
Free matchmaking and date booking. Food and drinks are separate.
Free features with paid upgrades.
No subscription
No subscription. No monthly dating bill.
Premium subscriptions available.
Got to know me better than I know myself and actually got me dates with interesting people. 10/10 recommend
lwc2120App Store review
Finally an app that encourages intentional dating! Super aesthetic and easy to navigate
a73849App Store review
Seamless user interface, cool design and great overall concept!
hoorah32App Store review
Update: I went on my first date and honestly really enjoyed it. We’re going on a second date this weekend.
Roeroeroeyourboat4App Store review
Went on my first date this weekend. I really like that they pick the bar for you
AustínoApp Store review
I went on a great date, it was nice the whole experience was sort of all taken care of for me.. restaurant was nice and I’d try it again
Jon.poker345App Store review
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Some of our favorite places

Where Known dates take place

A few possibilities from our venue library. Your date’s location depends on your match, preferences, and availability.

A little more to know

Good questions.

Do I get to talk to my date before meeting them?
Yes, you can chat with your date at 7 AM on the morning of your reservation. Just enough time to work out any last minute details. Plenty of time to break the ice, without overthinking it.
Where is Known available?
Known is live in the Bay Area and San Diego, with plans to expand worldwide soon. If you’re outside the US, join the worldwide waitlist to be notified when we launch in your city.
Does Known plan the first date?
Yes! Once you confirm your match and your schedules align, we select a venue based on both of your locations and make the reservation. All you have to do is show up and be yourself.
Why has my application not been approved yet?
Great question. If you are interested in applying for Known you must first complete your application. Applications are reviewed periodically by our team and the decision timeline can range anywhere from a couple days to several weeks. Application completion does not guarantee admittance to Known and memberships can be revoked.
Why do I need a friend to vouch for me?
Vouching helps us review your application with a more honest lens, which often strengthens your profile. The more we know about you, the better your Introductions.
How do I delete my account?
Sorry to see you go. If you'd like to withdraw your application to Known you can do so by deleting your account in settings. All data will be deleted within 30 days of the request, abiding by data compliance. We recommend pausing your account, because if you withdraw, you will re-enter the waitlist upon returning.

Your pocket matchmaker

Less searching.
More knowing.

A conversation. An introduction. A date worth getting ready for.

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Known arranging a date, shown on an iPhone